NICE GUY vs BAD BOY Quiz …

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NICE GUY vs BAD BOY Quiz …

(Is your Bad Boy good enough for you?)

You want a relationship and either you are already married or you are ready to proudly change your status from single to taken. But you’re unsure where he stands. If you’re getting mixed signals, it can be confusing as to whether you should keep investing your time and energy, or walk away.

Every relationship develops at a different pace, however, there should be clear signs that it’s growing not stagnating. If you’re partnered with a confident, mature man who is emotionally available then you probably wouldn’t be taking this quiz. That’s because those men tend to let you know what page they are on and you can feel it in their actions and words that you are their Bad, Good Girl.

Now let’s jump into the quiz. At the end of the questions, you’ll be given instructions for getting your results. So get out a pen and paper and keep track of your Yes / No answers.

He’s going through a divorce, very recently
single, or his Facebook status says,
“It’s complicated”

☐Yes ☐No

He makes plans with you for a few weeks or
months in advance

☐Yes ☐No

He’s swiping on Tinder and messaging
women in front of you

☐Yes ☐No

He introduces you to his friends and is
eager to meet yours

☐Yes ☐No

He blows off your plans or does not
accommodate your schedule

☐Yes ☐No

He finds ways to make you feel special
or prioritizes you even when life gets busy with
work and other obligations

☐Yes ☐No

He’s secretive with his phone or social
media accounts

☐Yes ☐No

He shares his vulnerabilities, fears and
insecurities with you

☐Yes ☐No

He keeps conversations surface level

☐Yes ☐No

He uses “we” instead of “me” when talking
about plans or the future

☐Yes ☐No

He has not introduced you to his network

☐Yes ☐No

He woos you with meaningful dates,
compliments or small gifts based on
the information he’s learned about you

☐Yes ☐No

He uses sex to gain intimacy, instead of
intimacy to gain sex

☐Yes ☐No

He’s trustworthy, reliable and makes you
feel safe

☐Yes ☐No

He does not talk about the future with you

☐Yes ☐No

He is open to trying your favorite hobbies
and exploring your interests

☐Yes ☐No

He makes you feel insecure about what
you have, or his affection is inconsistent

☐Yes ☐No

SCORING:

Give yourself +1 point for every “yes” answer
Then: Add up your total score for the blue question answers
Next: Add up your total score for the red question answers

FINAL SCORE: Blue Total Minus Red Total ______

RESULTS:

8 to 5: GREAT GOOD GUY/BAD BOY
You’ve definitely got a keeper and the relationship
should be nurtured … forever

4 to 1: RED FLAG
Look out for red flags and remember actions
speak louder than words

0: YOU DESERVE BETTER
You should be a priority

-1 to -4: PLAYER
He’s just not that into you and he’s playing
games

-5 to -9: A TRULY BAD, BAD-BOY
He wants his cake and you’re letting
him eat it too

If you’re still unclear where this relationship is going, it’s time to
have a conversation with your partner. Communication is key in any
relationship.

Sometimes women play the “chill girl,” pretending or convincing
themselves they are ok waiting around for a commitment, when in
reality they are ignoring their own emotional needs.

Stop settling for less than you deserve. Wanting a relationship
does not make you needy. You only feel needy when someone
refuses to meet your needs. You don’t want to get stuck investing in a dead-end relationship.

We know of too many women clinging on for dear life to an
emotionally unavailable man, only to feel disrespected,
unappreciated, and taken advantage of later on. Value and
respect yourself. You must assert your needs.

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